Introduction

This Relationship and Sex Education (RSE) policy outlines the commitment of Embsay C of E Primary School to provide high-quality, age-appropriate, and inclusive education concerning relationships and sex. This policy adheres to the 2014 National Curriculum in England, statutory guidance for Relationships Education, Relationships and Sex Education, and Health Education (2019), and aligns with Ofsted’s framework for inspecting education settings.

Statutory Framework

As per the 2019 regulations, all primary schools are required to deliver Relationships Education. This includes:

  1. Being taught about families, including different types of families, and the importance of healthy relationships.
  2. Understanding the impact of peer influence and the importance of consent.
  3. Identifying the characteristics of healthy relationships including respecting others and understanding personal boundaries.
  4. Exploring the changes that occur during puberty and the basic facts about human reproduction.

Aims and Objectives

  • To promote understanding of safe, healthy relationships, and to cultivate respect and empathy for others.
  • To equip pupils with knowledge and skills to make informed decisions and to manage their relationships effectively.
  • To support the emotional wellbeing of our students, fostering resilience and safety in their interpersonal interactions.

 

Teaching Content

We have chosen SCARF as our PSHE resource because the lessons build upon children’s prior learning; we have assessed the content and feel that it is relevant and sensitive to the needs of the children. There is planned progression across the SCARF scheme of work, so that children are increasingly and appropriately challenged as they move up through the school. Assessment is completed by the class teacher using half termly checks, alongside the lesson plan learning outcomes to demonstrate progression of both skills and knowledge.

We follow the six suggested half termly units and adapt the scheme of work where necessary to meet the local circumstances of our school, for example, we may use our local environment as the starting point for aspects of our work. The Rep Squad are also consulted as part of our planning, to ensure pupil voice in considered and fed into the planned programme.

Year/Half-termly unit titles 

1 

Me and my Relationships 

2 

Valuing Difference 

3 

Keeping Safe 

4 

Rights and Respect 

5 

Being my Best 

6 

Growing and Changing 

EYFS 

What makes me special 

People close to me 

Getting help 

Similarities and difference 

Celebrating difference 

Showing kindness 

Keeping my body safe 

Safe secrets and touches 

People who help to keep us safe 

Looking after things: friends, environment, money 

Keeping by body healthy – food, exercise, sleep 

Growth Mindset 

Cycles 

Life stages 

Girls and boys – similarities and difference 

Y1 

Feelings 

Getting help 

Classroom rules 

Special people 

Being a good friend 

Recognising, valuing and celebrating difference 

Developing respect and accepting others 

Bullying and getting help 

How our feelings can keep us safe – including online safety 

Safe and unsafe touches 

Medicine Safety 

Sleep 

Taking care of things: 

Myself 

My money 

My environment 

Growth Mindset 

Healthy eating 

Hygiene and health 

Cooperation 

Getting help 

Becoming independent 

My body parts 

Taking care of self and others 

Y2 

Bullying and teasing 

Our school rules about bullying 

Being a good friend 

Feelings/self-regulation 

  Being kind and helping others 

   Celebrating difference 

 People who help us 

  Listening Skills 

Safe and unsafe secrets 

Appropriate touch  

Medicine safety 

Cooperation 

Self-regulation 

Online safety 

Looking after money – saving and spending 

Growth Mindset 

Looking after my body 

Hygiene and health 

Exercise and sleep 

Life cycles 

Dealing with loss 

Being supportive 

Growing and changing 

Privacy 

Y3 

Rules and their purpose 

Cooperation 

Friendship (including respectful relationships) 

Coping with loss 

Recognising and respecting diversity 

Being respectful and tolerant  

My community 

Managing risk 

Decision-making skills 

Drugs and their risks 

  Staying safe online 

Skills we need to develop as we grow up 

Helping and being helped 

Looking after the environment 

Managing money 

  Keeping myself healthy and well 

  Celebrating and developing my skills 

 Developing empathy 

Relationships 

Changing bodies and puberty 

Keeping safe 

Safe and unsafe secrets 

Y4 

Healthy relationships 

Listening to feelings 

Bullying 

Assertive skills  

Recognising and celebrating difference (including religions and cultural difference) 

Understanding and challenging stereotypes 

Managing risk 

Understanding the norms of drug use (cigarette and alcohol use) 

Influences 

Online safety 

Making a difference (different ways of helping others or the environment) 

Media influence 

Decisions about spending money 

Having choices and making decisions about my health 

Taking care of my environment 

My skills and interests 

Body changes during puberty 

Managing difficult feelings 

Relationships including marriage 

Y5 

Feelings 

Friendship skills, including compromise 

Assertive skills  

Cooperation 

Recognising emotional needs 

Recognising and celebrating difference, including religions and cultural 

Influence and pressure of social media 

Managing risk, including online safety  

Norms around use of legal drugs (tobacco, alcohol) 

Decision-making skills 

  Rights, respect and duties 

  relating to my health 

  Making a difference 

  Decisions about lending, borrowing and spending  

 Growing independence and taking ownership 

Keeping myself healthy 

 Media awareness and safety 

 My community 

Managing difficult feelings 

Managing change 

How my feelings help keeping safe 

Getting help 

Y6 

Assertiveness 

Cooperation 

Safe/unsafe touches 

Positive relationships 

Recognising and celebrating difference Recognising and reflecting on prejudice-based bullying  

Understanding Bystander behaviour  

Gender stereotyping 

Understanding emotional needs 

Staying safe online 

  Drugs: norms and risks (including the law) 

  Understanding media bias, including social media 

Caring: communities and the environment 

Earning and saving money 

Understanding democracy 

  Aspirations and goal setting 

  Managing risk 

 Looking after my mental health 

Coping with changes 

Keeping safe  

Body Image 

Sex education 

Self-esteem 

 

Primary Phase (KS1 and KS2)

  1. Me and my relationships
    1. Understanding family structures and roles.
    2. Discussing the importance of stability and representation in different family dynamics.
  2. Valuing differences
    1. Recognising the attributes of friendships and what makes a good friend.
    2. Exploring conflict resolution and effective communication skills.
    3. Promoting respect for differences in individuals and relationships.
  3. Puberty and Growing Up
    1. Teaching about the changes that occur during puberty, including physical and emotional changes.
    2. Providing a basic understanding of human reproduction within an age-appropriate context.
    3. Establishing the importance of personal boundaries and consent.
  1. Keeping Safe
    1. Identifying safe and unsafe situations and how to seek help.
    2. Understanding online safety and the importance of accessing information responsibly.

Delivery of RSE

  • Approach:
    • RSE is embedded within our PSHE offer, with lessons integrated into the PSHE curriculum and complemented by relevant subjects such as science, ethics, and citizenship, supported by the Coram Life Education Long Term Planning document.
    • We ensure the teaching delivered by external visitors reflects the school's values and ethos, fitting with our planned programme through clear and regular communication with the Life Education team.
    • Lessons will be engaging, interactive, and tailored to the age and developmental stage of the pupils.
  • Resources:
    • Utilising a range of age-appropriate resources including literature, multimedia, and guest speakers when necessary.
  • Professional Development:
    • Continuous training for staff through workshops, external training, and collaborations with health professionals to ensure confident and informed delivery of RSE.

Parental Engagement

  • Consultation:
    • The school will actively engage with parents and guardians during the formulation and application of the RSE policy.
    • Regular updates will be provided to inform parents of the content being taught and opportunities for parental workshops will be offered.
  • Right to Withdraw:
    • Parents have the right to withdraw their children from the sex education component of the curriculum, except for the biological aspects of human reproduction which are part of the National Curriculum Science. Procedures for doing so will be clearly stated.

Monitoring and Evaluation

  • RSE will be regularly evaluated through feedback from pupils, parents, and staff.
  • The subject leader will report annually to the Headteacher and governing body on the effectiveness of the RSE programme, recommending improvements when necessary.

Policy Review

This policy will be reviewed annually in consultation with stakeholders, including staff, parents, and pupils, to ensure it remains relevant and effective.

Summary of Expectations by Ofsted

The Ofsted framework emphasises the importance of a well-structured RSE policy that provides pupils with relevant knowledge about healthy relationships, mental and physical health. Schools must provide safeguarding measures, promote inclusivity, and offer a curriculum that reflects the diversity of society. The school will:

  • Deliver RSE effectively in line with statutory obligations and guidance.
  • Enable learners to develop the skills needed for life in modern Britain, ensuring discussions are respectful and inclusive.
  • Work collaboratively with parents and communities to support the educational experience.

Approval: This policy is approved and adopted by the Governing Body on 6th July 2025
Next Review Date: July 2026