Introduction
This Relationship and Sex Education (RSE) policy outlines the commitment of Embsay C of E Primary School to provide high-quality, age-appropriate, and inclusive education concerning relationships and sex. This policy adheres to the 2014 National Curriculum in England, statutory guidance for Relationships Education, Relationships and Sex Education, and Health Education (2019), and aligns with Ofsted’s framework for inspecting education settings.
Statutory Framework
As per the 2019 regulations, all primary schools are required to deliver Relationships Education. This includes:
- Being taught about families, including different types of families, and the importance of healthy relationships.
- Understanding the impact of peer influence and the importance of consent.
- Identifying the characteristics of healthy relationships including respecting others and understanding personal boundaries.
- Exploring the changes that occur during puberty and the basic facts about human reproduction.
Aims and Objectives
- To promote understanding of safe, healthy relationships, and to cultivate respect and empathy for others.
- To equip pupils with knowledge and skills to make informed decisions and to manage their relationships effectively.
- To support the emotional wellbeing of our students, fostering resilience and safety in their interpersonal interactions.
Teaching Content
We have chosen SCARF as our PSHE resource because the lessons build upon children’s prior learning; we have assessed the content and feel that it is relevant and sensitive to the needs of the children. There is planned progression across the SCARF scheme of work, so that children are increasingly and appropriately challenged as they move up through the school. Assessment is completed by the class teacher using half termly checks, alongside the lesson plan learning outcomes to demonstrate progression of both skills and knowledge.
We follow the six suggested half termly units and adapt the scheme of work where necessary to meet the local circumstances of our school, for example, we may use our local environment as the starting point for aspects of our work. The Rep Squad are also consulted as part of our planning, to ensure pupil voice in considered and fed into the planned programme.
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Year/Half-termly unit titles |
1 Me and my Relationships |
2 Valuing Difference |
3 Keeping Safe |
4 Rights and Respect |
5 Being my Best |
6 Growing and Changing |
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EYFS |
What makes me special People close to me Getting help |
Similarities and difference Celebrating difference Showing kindness |
Keeping my body safe Safe secrets and touches People who help to keep us safe |
Looking after things: friends, environment, money |
Keeping by body healthy – food, exercise, sleep Growth Mindset |
Cycles Life stages Girls and boys – similarities and difference |
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Y1 |
Feelings Getting help Classroom rules Special people Being a good friend |
Recognising, valuing and celebrating difference Developing respect and accepting others Bullying and getting help |
How our feelings can keep us safe – including online safety Safe and unsafe touches Medicine Safety Sleep |
Taking care of things: Myself My money My environment |
Growth Mindset Healthy eating Hygiene and health Cooperation |
Getting help Becoming independent My body parts Taking care of self and others |
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Y2 |
Bullying and teasing Our school rules about bullying Being a good friend Feelings/self-regulation |
Being kind and helping others Celebrating difference People who help us Listening Skills |
Safe and unsafe secrets Appropriate touch Medicine safety |
Cooperation Self-regulation Online safety Looking after money – saving and spending |
Growth Mindset Looking after my body Hygiene and health Exercise and sleep |
Life cycles Dealing with loss Being supportive Growing and changing Privacy |
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Y3 |
Rules and their purpose Cooperation Friendship (including respectful relationships) Coping with loss |
Recognising and respecting diversity Being respectful and tolerant My community |
Managing risk Decision-making skills Drugs and their risks Staying safe online |
Skills we need to develop as we grow up Helping and being helped Looking after the environment Managing money |
Keeping myself healthy and well Celebrating and developing my skills Developing empathy |
Relationships Changing bodies and puberty Keeping safe Safe and unsafe secrets |
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Y4 |
Healthy relationships Listening to feelings Bullying Assertive skills |
Recognising and celebrating difference (including religions and cultural difference) Understanding and challenging stereotypes |
Managing risk Understanding the norms of drug use (cigarette and alcohol use) Influences Online safety |
Making a difference (different ways of helping others or the environment) Media influence Decisions about spending money |
Having choices and making decisions about my health Taking care of my environment My skills and interests |
Body changes during puberty Managing difficult feelings Relationships including marriage |
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Y5 |
Feelings Friendship skills, including compromise Assertive skills Cooperation Recognising emotional needs |
Recognising and celebrating difference, including religions and cultural Influence and pressure of social media |
Managing risk, including online safety Norms around use of legal drugs (tobacco, alcohol) Decision-making skills |
Rights, respect and duties relating to my health Making a difference Decisions about lending, borrowing and spending |
Growing independence and taking ownership Keeping myself healthy Media awareness and safety My community |
Managing difficult feelings Managing change How my feelings help keeping safe Getting help |
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Y6 |
Assertiveness Cooperation Safe/unsafe touches Positive relationships |
Recognising and celebrating difference Recognising and reflecting on prejudice-based bullying Understanding Bystander behaviour Gender stereotyping |
Understanding emotional needs Staying safe online Drugs: norms and risks (including the law) |
Understanding media bias, including social media Caring: communities and the environment Earning and saving money Understanding democracy |
Aspirations and goal setting Managing risk Looking after my mental health |
Coping with changes Keeping safe Body Image Sex education Self-esteem |
Primary Phase (KS1 and KS2)
- Me and my relationships
- Understanding family structures and roles.
- Discussing the importance of stability and representation in different family dynamics.
- Valuing differences
- Recognising the attributes of friendships and what makes a good friend.
- Exploring conflict resolution and effective communication skills.
- Promoting respect for differences in individuals and relationships.
- Puberty and Growing Up
- Teaching about the changes that occur during puberty, including physical and emotional changes.
- Providing a basic understanding of human reproduction within an age-appropriate context.
- Establishing the importance of personal boundaries and consent.
- Keeping Safe
- Identifying safe and unsafe situations and how to seek help.
- Understanding online safety and the importance of accessing information responsibly.
Delivery of RSE
- Approach:
- RSE is embedded within our PSHE offer, with lessons integrated into the PSHE curriculum and complemented by relevant subjects such as science, ethics, and citizenship, supported by the Coram Life Education Long Term Planning document.
- We ensure the teaching delivered by external visitors reflects the school's values and ethos, fitting with our planned programme through clear and regular communication with the Life Education team.
- Lessons will be engaging, interactive, and tailored to the age and developmental stage of the pupils.
- Resources:
- Utilising a range of age-appropriate resources including literature, multimedia, and guest speakers when necessary.
- Professional Development:
- Continuous training for staff through workshops, external training, and collaborations with health professionals to ensure confident and informed delivery of RSE.
Parental Engagement
- Consultation:
- The school will actively engage with parents and guardians during the formulation and application of the RSE policy.
- Regular updates will be provided to inform parents of the content being taught and opportunities for parental workshops will be offered.
- Right to Withdraw:
- Parents have the right to withdraw their children from the sex education component of the curriculum, except for the biological aspects of human reproduction which are part of the National Curriculum Science. Procedures for doing so will be clearly stated.
Monitoring and Evaluation
- RSE will be regularly evaluated through feedback from pupils, parents, and staff.
- The subject leader will report annually to the Headteacher and governing body on the effectiveness of the RSE programme, recommending improvements when necessary.
Policy Review
This policy will be reviewed annually in consultation with stakeholders, including staff, parents, and pupils, to ensure it remains relevant and effective.
Summary of Expectations by Ofsted
The Ofsted framework emphasises the importance of a well-structured RSE policy that provides pupils with relevant knowledge about healthy relationships, mental and physical health. Schools must provide safeguarding measures, promote inclusivity, and offer a curriculum that reflects the diversity of society. The school will:
- Deliver RSE effectively in line with statutory obligations and guidance.
- Enable learners to develop the skills needed for life in modern Britain, ensuring discussions are respectful and inclusive.
- Work collaboratively with parents and communities to support the educational experience.
Approval: This policy is approved and adopted by the Governing Body on 6th July 2025
Next Review Date: July 2026